Once again the drunken antics that pass for local colour round these parts have pressed themselves to the front of the crowd of cultural events here in Cork during our year as European Capital of Culture. Quite literally pressed forward, in fact, as a couple of nights ago some assholes bashed in our front door as they loped down the street looking for things to vandalise.
sammywol and I were shocked speechless for a moment. I never realised that was more than figure of speech but I was briefly stunned into both silence and immobility. When I got up to check the door the lad who had done it were off down the road. I suppose I should be grateful that they just bashed the door and moved on. I don't imagine for a second that I (or my wife) would put up more than a token resistance to anyone who actually decided to break into the house and attack or rob us.
I'm unsettled, to say the least. I like the house we're living in. I like our immediate neighbours. I love that I can walk to work from here. But I hate that I'm made to feel uncomfortable where we live and I hate that we can't afford to move. I think the worst of it is that I can feel myself becoming more conservative.
To cap it all, only a couple of days before the business with the door we discovered that someone had vandalised our car, shattering the passenger side wing mirror with a thrown apple. I have to admire their accuracy, whoever they were, if not their civic-mindedness. What did the early agriculturalists, when founding the first cities, think they were doing moving a bunch of contrary, easily bored primates into close proximity with strangers (and northsiders)?
I'm unsettled, to say the least. I like the house we're living in. I like our immediate neighbours. I love that I can walk to work from here. But I hate that I'm made to feel uncomfortable where we live and I hate that we can't afford to move. I think the worst of it is that I can feel myself becoming more conservative.
To cap it all, only a couple of days before the business with the door we discovered that someone had vandalised our car, shattering the passenger side wing mirror with a thrown apple. I have to admire their accuracy, whoever they were, if not their civic-mindedness. What did the early agriculturalists, when founding the first cities, think they were doing moving a bunch of contrary, easily bored primates into close proximity with strangers (and northsiders)?
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II can recommend an inside iron support structure for the door. It lies against the frame and gives extra support to the door. Anyone trying to crash it would have a nasty shock.
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On the other hand, knowing how I have responded to other attacks on my home and family (kids smashing our pumpkins, jumping our fence to cut through our yard, and so on) I would have foolishly been off after them. Very often I've found that in a "fight or flight" situation, I'm ready to fight.
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About a year ago, some kids thought it would be funny to run up and pound on the wall of our living room one night. I jumped up, got into my car and chased two of them down. They were boys, about 14 years old. I threatened to: A: Kick their asses B: Call the cops C: Call their parents. They were pretty well scared shitless and very apologetic, so I let them go. They don't even walk down this street anymore on their way to school.
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It seems that alcohol is playing a big part in your previous vandalism episodes,and now this new one. What are your neighors experiencing or saying about all this? Are they having their own problems, too?
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Alcohol is a big problem in Ireland and one that we have a cultural blind spot to. It's also a problem that our house is on a route from the centre of town, where the excitement is, to an deprived/poor area of town, where the disaffected youth live.
Our neighbours with the two boys have had their car vandalised a few times (it is a Mercedes however, which might drawn additional attention), and are talking of building an off-road garage. We haven't got the floor space to waste on that, and in fact converted the old garage into living space shortly after we bought the house. Admittedly the old garage space was too narrow to take any modern car so keeping it wouldn't help with our car problems. The door, I think, will have to be reinforced or entirely replaced.
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I do not envy you the Halloween you will probably have. You are welcome to go to Leitrim for that weekend if you like. Almost no-one lives there, and they certainly wouldn't wreck your car.
LadyB
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